Ask Dee!

 Please don't ask stupid questions you know I won't even try to answer!


Lets see if this new form works! Hopefully I will answer questions within a week of them being asked.
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12 comments:

  1. RachelMarch 28, 2013 at 3:58 AM

    Missing my black leather knee boots with the 5 inch stiletto. Can you send them back please?

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  2. Josie ChungMarch 26, 2015 at 12:54 PM

    <fingers crossed the form works>

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  3. Dee MentiaMarch 26, 2015 at 1:29 PM

    It did!

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  4. DawnNovember 3, 2015 at 3:52 PM

    I understand thir was going to be some slowness due to migrating to a new server but Emily said that wold occur between the ninth and thirteenth. So the uestinis did they move up the date or is there another reason the Haven went down and shows as a site not found?

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    1. Dee MentiaNovember 3, 2015 at 5:01 PM

      This would be a good blog to follow even though it is rarely updated. http://havendowntime.blogspot.com

      It will let you know of any issues we may be having at the Haven. We had an issue with our host who said we were behind on our payments so they shut off the site. We currently had enough to keep the site current and were dealing with them about it this afternoon.

      Emily just posted a new reply about an hour ago:

      With their own records on my side I apparently was able to do enough to get the site back online. That said, they now claim up to 24 hours for the domains to repropogate.

      After the events of the past 12 hours Rachel has decided she can no longer trust our web host to conduct business fairly and honestly. This is likely to mean changes in the costs of keeping the Haven online as things change to a new host soon.

      If you happen to have a web host you love, it wouldn't hurt to let Rachel know about them.

      Emily

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  5. DawnNovember 3, 2015 at 11:07 PM

    I had the blog bookmarked but searched and couldn't find the bookmark. I'd gone there before when there were other outages. I just posted here as an alternative because i knew you'd get a notification.. By the time I saw your reply the Haven was back up and I sent you a PM there. Thanks for responding though.

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  6. NadineOctober 3, 2019 at 3:22 PM

    Hi Dee.

    Do you know if something has happened to the Haven? I can't reach it anymore.

    Nadine

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  7. ZoeNovember 2, 2021 at 7:04 PM

    Dee,
    Do you know if one can get hypnotized to believe they are female? If so, do you have any resources or contacts? Thanks, Zoe

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    1. Dee MentiaNovember 2, 2021 at 9:02 PM

      I am dubious of many of the 'hypnotists' and 'trancers' that are online selling one-size-fits-all mp3's and video files .. each person has different reactions and what works for one listener definitely won't work for another.

      If you can find someone that does one-on-one work, perhaps that might be a way to go, but this can be considered a kink, so I'm not sure if there are professional ethics involved. I know there are definitely hypnokink meet ups in larger cities. In that realm, you might want to join FetLife if you haven't already. I know there's definitely things there that might steer you in the right direction. There are seminars and such, and you could find someone that might want to work with you, but do be wary.

      If you are wondering if you are able to be tranced, you can always search out some material online. I would probably recommend ShibbySays on Pornhub. She does a lot of hands-free orgasm stuff, ASMR, role-play, light domination, etc ... and has a great voice, and if you really like it, she's also on Patreon.

      Hope this helps. Just try to be as safe as possible though, both in your physical being, and also financially.

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  8. FionaMarch 15, 2024 at 1:47 AM

    Say Dee, sorry to hear your friends are having a rough time of it.

    I was wondering, and I will take no offense if you choose not to answer this.

    Does Dee, even unseen, do some/much/most of the support, especially the purely emotional? Usually women are better at this than men. (not always. Usually) I'm afraid I might sorta kinda elbow my guy self out of the way here? Like when a good friend called (out of state) upset because her ex (asshole, but the father of her daughters) passed, and I listened, and consoled, but let a "Honey" slip out - male me NEVER saws that, unless he refers to bee poop. Fiona does call friends that. I got called on it. But she also was upset another time, went on for 5 minutes, I said something wrong, and was told "Stop being a man!" as in if it was NOT a man on the phone the first 4:50? But she kept on going. And SHE does not know about Fiona. The friends who know about Fiona... say our support style is obviously all from her. I was wondering if Dee does the work here.

    Hugs to you and your friends.

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  9. lacysliploverMay 7, 2024 at 5:37 PM

    Dee: Are you having issues getting into Rachel's Haven? I have tried for days and I cannot get into the site.

    Lacy at: slipslace@yahoo.com

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