tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post3909931975675774535..comments2024-03-28T03:27:26.345-04:00Comments on Dee-lusions of Grandeur: The Truth Has a Reality Bias!Dee Mentiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07798903090538917010noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post-49726919298177870002015-08-29T13:54:35.245-04:002015-08-29T13:54:35.245-04:00I do think that over time, we do sort of integrate...I do think that over time, we do sort of integrate the femme online persona into our real lives, especially when compassion or positive emotions like empathy need to be expressed.<br /><br />I know for a fact I would have hated the late teens - early 20's Damien if I came across him today.<br /><br />I guess that we are all a work in progress!Dee Mentiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07798903090538917010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post-19247185908170005292015-08-29T13:17:41.403-04:002015-08-29T13:17:41.403-04:00Of course you would misuse it. We all have to lear...Of course you would misuse it. We all have to learn how to control our impulses!Dee Mentiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07798903090538917010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post-76762574433301123772015-08-27T22:22:17.230-04:002015-08-27T22:22:17.230-04:00Oh, and yes, I'd like to use that magic at tim...Oh, and yes, I'd like to use that magic at times. Get out in a fully female body now and again. Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05876658910205882086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post-33332156217976584422015-08-27T20:14:17.931-04:002015-08-27T20:14:17.931-04:00I don't know about "real", but I thi...I don't know about "real", but I think the online me is warmer, and more concerned about her friends, and more open with her emotions. I don't know if I am any more or less truthful. I am more vocal in my support of friends, I do not "assume they know how I feel". I am somewhat segmented, but not always. A friend recently had a loss, and when I spoke to them on the phone from work... it was me reaching out, not him. He's a better man for me being there to help. And people who have known him for a shorter amount of time seem to think of him as a warmer person than before. Point to me. Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05876658910205882086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post-80982520154703772962015-08-27T15:36:12.888-04:002015-08-27T15:36:12.888-04:00Well i am real in the day to day would be great to...Well i am real in the day to day would be great to share the other side there but guess we all know the score.<br /> I don't know that i am more open or truthful in blog land still hiding alot I D wise but can share what is hidden in the real world. personally i don't think i have adopted a "character" but of course most do. I always write/ comment to that character they play. <br /> I do wish I had started with a fem name but guess its to late to change now. <br /> Like most people its great to know you are not alone and you are not the odd ball you thought.<br /> And if i had unlocked the secret for real hell yes i would try and share it. although i would probably miss use it to. Ianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11089075373700373443noreply@blogger.com