tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post1970962840700945416..comments2024-03-28T03:27:26.345-04:00Comments on Dee-lusions of Grandeur: Just Admit it! ... Questions that need ANSWERS!Dee Mentiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07798903090538917010noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post-80988757387102798182013-03-28T22:56:43.462-04:002013-03-28T22:56:43.462-04:00Well, yeah, its why I had mentioned the single per...Well, yeah, its why I had mentioned the single person aspect to it.<br /><br />I have many friends and most of them are "friend" compatible, but not really "lover" compatible so I am more in line with what you said. I know that back in the day I had a few lesbian friends tell me that they sort of wished I was female.Dee Mentiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07798903090538917010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post-9967243233217989742013-03-28T22:54:05.687-04:002013-03-28T22:54:05.687-04:00You have a really good attitude about it!You have a really good attitude about it!Dee Mentiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07798903090538917010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post-15252640108794109572013-03-28T22:53:21.656-04:002013-03-28T22:53:21.656-04:00Well, if you don't want to be Prominent, you c...Well, if you don't want to be Prominent, you certainly can be called Prolific!Dee Mentiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07798903090538917010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post-42587408647958785572013-03-28T14:35:06.442-04:002013-03-28T14:35:06.442-04:00Loved it Dee, I think if this were to happen to me...Loved it Dee, I think if this were to happen to me I would be the one who would feel strange. I couldn't do that with my best friend. Yet I know that I would with someone new. Just too much history and it would be way to to uncomfortable for me. Great cap and I loved the discussion question, made me really think about the situation.<br /><br />xoxoxo KatieKatie Millshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01221510966233140117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post-19409884591322005752013-03-28T08:06:07.698-04:002013-03-28T08:06:07.698-04:00Hmm... I'm not sure I could ever look at a for...Hmm... I'm not sure I could ever look at a former best friend as a lover, no matter what she looks like. I do love my best friends but in a platonic way. Then again, it would depend on what they want... their physical form wouldn't change the fact that I would do almost anything for a good friend. So if they were attracted to me and honestly wanted to have more than a friendly relationship I would try my best to please them. <br /><br />I think it would be about the same if I were in that position. I don't believe that I could look at my friends and want them as lovers. I MAY be attracted to men, but I'd still see them as friends first. It doesn't help that my best friends are married... so not only would I be going against my own grain, I'd also be encouraging them to cheat on their wives! <br />Caitlyn Maskedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02732033913089350905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post-36421257371550143202013-03-27T21:55:47.401-04:002013-03-27T21:55:47.401-04:00Wonderful caption, I think I would start with the ...Wonderful caption, I think I would start with the feeling, why him, and not me? But when I get over that, I think I might. if the feeling of attraction is mutual, like in the caption. In my teens, I would have tried to date my best friends sister, if at the time I noticed she started to blossom, she didn't already have a boyfriend. <br />And if I would be the woman? again, the mutual feeling of attraction, I might. But it is less likely, unless my feelings towards men and women change as well. On the other hand, if my feelings wouldn't change, who knows what might happen. Among my best friends is a woman as well. Currently there is no attraction between us, so who knows what will happen.<br />Helena Radianthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07628278680037628856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1870069212223825401.post-42240795035040251172013-03-27T21:54:46.845-04:002013-03-27T21:54:46.845-04:00I would have no trouble with it, if he didn't,...I would have no trouble with it, if he didn't, if I was the female. Duh! If, however, the roles were reversed, and I had to be a male as I currently am, but date my former best friend who is now a female, I could do that too. Might be interesting. By the way, love the cap!!<br /><br />Thanks so much for the elevation in status. Prominent you say? Wow! Love that! Thank you!<br /><br />Kiss kiss,<br /><br />LeeanneLeeanne Montgomeryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17969802988317490239noreply@blogger.com